How can people maintain discipline, stay motivated, and effectively manage distractions to pursue personal growth and self-improvement?

Dan Edwardes explains the value of playing games, and unpacks what motivates him. He discusses the struggle of choosing where to spend your time and energy, and the difficulty of distractions. Dan shares his insights on parkour’s relationship to self efficacy, and the power and importance of storytelling.

When asked: How do you manage to get up every day and keep doing what you do to live your life? How do you stay motivated?

“It’s a good question. And it’s not one that I’ve ever had to really ask of myself, I think, in great depth. […] Because of the stories I grew up on and what I exposed myself to when I was very young, the concepts I exposed myself to and took very seriously when I was nine, 10, 11 years old. And then throughout my teenage years, that’s just how I think. And I can’t really remember being alive before that because I don’t remember being that young. That’s just the way my life has always been.” ~ Dan Edwardes (8:30)

The conversation explores the intersection of discipline, motivation, and the challenges of maintaining focus in a world full of distractions. Dan shares insights from his lifelong journey through martial arts, parkour, and various forms of training. A key theme is the importance of grounding oneself in simple, repetitive practices—like sweeping the floor in martial arts—as a foundation for developing broader skills.

Edwardes emphasizes the role of storytelling in shaping experiences, both in training sessions and life. Whether through parkour or verbal games, the practice of crafting narratives enhances learning and engagement. The discussion also touches on practical ways to manage modern distractions, such as altering how one uses their phone, reinforcing the importance of small, intentional changes to promote clarity and focus.

Takeaways

The importance of foundational practices — Sweeping the dojo teaches humility, discipline, and attention to detail.

Storytelling as a training tool — Stories enhance memory, engagement, and emotional investment in lessons.

Managing distractions — Clearing the home screen or limiting phone use can free up time and reduce mental clutter.

Self-efficacy through parkour — Parkour forces honest self-assessment and builds competence by exposing limitations.

Training as a means to greater life skills — Physical fitness and movement training are not ends but vehicles for broader personal growth.

Resources

Robert McKee’s Story — A foundational book on the principles of storytelling and narrative structure.

John Yorke’s Into the Woods — A detailed exploration of the structure and mechanics of storytelling.

Save the Cat by Blake Snyder — A guide to screenplay writing that breaks down narrative beats in simple terms.

Fighting Monkey — A movement practice founded by Jozef Frucek, emphasizing attention to detail and clean execution.

Art of Retreat — A parkour and movement-focused event where community leaders share insights and teaching practices.

(Written with help from Chat-GPT.)

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In the Movers Mindset podcast, I talk with movement enthusiasts to learn who they are, what they do, and why they do it. I’m interested in the nature and philosophy of movement and in exploring themes like independence, self-direction, and human excellence. My interests color each conversation and provide some structure to Movers Mindset. But since I like to take the scenic route, every conversation ends up going somewhere unique.

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